I have been on the plan for almost a month myself, and yes, I am a "real" person. I started the diet the first of November, but waited to start on the pills until the 16th. It has taken me awhile to finally notice the scale start to go down (I've lost 7 pounds so far) and as much as I would love "better" results, I keep telling myself it's better than nothing. I do have some hard times, when I'd really love a good ol' cheeseburger or the like (especially when that's what my kids want) but overall it's not that bad. I will say this, and as suprising as it may sound, make sure you eat the correct fat grams, and by that I mean as close as possible to the maximum! The closer you get to that, the more fat Alli will block and in doing so cuts out more calories than eating something with the same amount of calories and less fat. It can be difficult, I've found, because most items that are low-cal, low-fat are TOO low fat. So you've got to find a way to add fat. Nuts work great, especially since they are a healthly fat. What I have started doing as well (so I don't feel so deprived of the beloved chocolate) is get the mini bars (Snickers, Twix, whatever) and eat one or two as part of my meal with a pill. From my figures, one of them has 42 calories and 1.8 grams of fat. That in and of itself may be high in fat, but if you eat it with stuff that is lower in fat in proportion to the number of calories, they will work together.
I too have had a problem finding time in my day to fit in exercise. I have heard all the advice about HOW to find time, I just haven't been able to work it out just yet. I know if I keep on I'll get there eventually, and again, something is better than nothing!
Regarding what you said about tracking your calories, I've found that has helped me greatly! I keep a little book in my purse and I write down EVERYTHING I eat everyday. I write in the amount of calories and fat and add each meal up. It helps me track my totals as well as if I should ever have any treatment effects (none so far, YAY!!) I can go back and see what I've eaten and narrow it done. I know my memory isn't good enough to remember all I've eaten without writing it down!! Best of luck to everyone!!