Don't let other people rob you of your power. There will always be people willing and available to sabotage your efforts. You have lost 35lbs! That is wonderful and you should be very proud of your efforts. If everyone could "lost it on their own", then we wouldn't need the assistant of programs like Alli. I've battled my weight for the past 21yrs. ... but now, and only now, do I truly feel like I have a program tailored to my needs and one that will be a success. Keep up the good work and don't ever let others rob of you of your success and joy!
Lisa/Tx.