Hamburger is terribly fatty, unless you look for extra lean. The only fast food hamburger that I can eat is the Wendy's Junior.... all the others are too fatty.
The leanest steak is the sirloin, and I believe the fattiest is the ribeye. Filet Mignon is generally not too fatty, but NY strip is pretty marbled. You can have the butcher at your grocery store grind sirloin, or look for the leanest hamburger (which is usually ground chuck or ground round.)
Also, look for the hidden fat that may be putting you over the top - the sour cream or butter in your potato, the cheese or dressing in the salad. Or the cheesecake for dessert, LOL!