I know how you feel. My husband has been working out for 4 months and has lost sooo much weight. He talks about the weight he has lost, how toned his muscles are getting. When I mentioned I was thinking about taking Alli, he really acted like he didn't know why. He says he's happy with the way I look, but I can't see how. I feel like he is leaving me behind.

I have been reading the posts and I purchased the product earlier this month.  it took me a long time to decide to try it. I start taking the pills this saturday. I am not looking for some overnight cure all, but I do know if I do nothing, nothing will change.

My goal is to misplace 60 lbs. If I do, I will be the smallest I have ever been in my adult life (the last time I weighed less than 200 lbs, I was 16 years old.) I know I can do it, I just hope I can give myself the chance to.

Tdfisher

 I'm afraid I'll give up & fail.That's why I'm here,hoping to keep motivated.

It took me a long time to convince my hubby to let me try alli,he kept saying I'll dry up & blow away,that I don't need to loose any(at 195,it'll take a tornado to blow me away!).

He hasn't even ask me how I'm doing.The only thing he's said is that he hopes I'm happy now.

Well speaking of hubby,I gotta go make some brownies & I'm making me a diet 7 up cake.

 bklecka:  Thanks for the good feedback on my big weekend away.  I'll keep in mind your suggestions and report back on Monday how it all went.  I did order the chicken instead of the NY Strip, before I even started with Alli.  I have confidence I can overcome obstacles that pop up.  I don't drink so I don't have to worry about counting calories in the alochol drinks.  Water will work just fine.  Have a great weekend yourself and again thanks!

tlc

 Hey Back:  Had a really good day, late dinner though which I don't like to do, but had running to do after work.  Really looking forward to my weekend away and do plan on relaxing and having fun.  The hotel were staying at has a sauna, jacuzzi and pool.  AHHHHHH!   Need it!.  Hope you have a great weekend and thanks for the tips sent my way.  Take care and will let everyone know how it went on Monday,

tlc

 Hi all,

I have been away from the board due to caring for my mom who has been very ill with peritonitis. I hope everyone is doing well. I am at a standstill and have been for the last two weeks:(. I hope to be under 200 pounds soon as I am getting frustrated. Well I better get some sleep. Night all!

Chris

 Bec130---Welcome! Yea, I have had people say that too. It is not about a number...its ATTITUDE!!! Thats what I always say. If you feel that you need to drop some weight in order to feel better about yourself...than by all means do it. You need to do what FEELS right for you. Thats why I think 'attitude' is a key factor in changing your life. Ya know they say that you can have 2 people that have the same body shape and size and the one with the 'good attitude' will appear lighter than the other one to passer byers. Believe it! Well just so ya know we are here for you at any time. Hey....we are not gonna tell ya your fat! LOL But seriously, its about being healthy and if you dont feel that way...than join in and kick some fat butt!

Anyways....Good Luck and let us know how you are doing. Remember nobody here judges you one way or the other. But we will be honest and supportive and motivating...and whatever you need to help you through this time in your life. Why dont you give us some stats about yourself.... age,height, start weight-current weight, married, kids anything....I look forward to helping you along. The girls here are fabulous and always have words of encouragement...so talk to you soon! Have a better day today!!!

PS...I am Nyla from Las Vegas. I am married with 3 kids at age 36. Started at 220 and am currently feeling the fabulous attitude allready at 188! Good luck!

Nyla----6

 tdfisher---hey there, good for you! Make that change that will make YOU FEEL better about yourself. Dont wait for anybody else to say you need it...it is your body and treat it that way. I am proud of you for making this change in your life...for you! Good luck and keep us posted on how you are doing. If you need anything...shout out!

Nyla----6

 tlc---good luck and remember to have fun....definately check in when ya get back and let us know how it went.

Nyla----6

 Hey Chris---was wondering about you. Good to hear from you...sorry about mom! I am sure you have your hands full right now, so do what you need to do and you will get past this stand still....when you and your body are ready. Ya know, stress (which I am sure you have your feel of right now) plus lack of sleeping I am sure, are both bad for any kind of weight changing. So just hang in there and you will be in the 'under 200 club' soon enough. Keep us posted on mom and yourself....take care Chris. Give a shout if ya need anything. Love ya and missin ya around the boards!

Nyla----6

Hi Crystal Im new here just started June 08 I've been on the plan now for five weeks I've lost 13 pounds so far, I'm happy with that, I saw that you had 51 pound to loose and you wanted to do so by June this year, so I was wondering if you reached your goal. I want to loose 50 pounds, but I set my goal a little bit at a time so I won't be dissapointed I started at 180 now I'm at 167.

 Hi mrsjones...sounds like you are doing great. Congrats on your success so far. I am not Crystal but just wanted to congratulate you anyways. I dont think Crystal ever comes on anymore to this site really. Have not heard from her in forever and ever. We do have a newbie named Crystal, if I remember right...but have not really heard from the original starter of this fabulous board! But I am Nyla and wanted to give you a big WHOO HOO on the loss. So, good luck and hope you reach your goals...all of them! Have a great day!

Nyla----6

 wow, 13 pounds lost in 5 weeks. So im just wondering for the people who have lost alot in there first few weeks, what is you all's workout routine? what do you do daily as far as activities go?....anyone?

Hola my Alli Chicas..

I am having theee hardest time concetrating today. Just don't want to be at work... Anyone have that same feeling??? Oh what a silly question that is.

Today is my check in and I’m down 2lbs.. It’s frustrating though. I know it’s my doing – I’m playing Russian roulette. I’m exercising just enough to maintain the crap I’m eating. And what I’m eating isn’t as bad as I could be. No fried foods, which I miss and could devour in a heart beat. But tortilla with light swiss.. but double the dose.. still a better choice but knowing my body it might as well be fried. Lots of salads, but putting sunflower seeds on it .. not two or three either, I kinda do a dump and run kinda serving. So all little things add up. I have to be really diligent and I’m in the “its hard phase”. Not giving up.. I just bought a few new shirts at lunch and just thinking about them makes me not want to eat anything. They are forgiving only to a certain point . So to keep them cute and at the front of my closet I need to stay on track. Congrats on all the weight loss that I've read here today.. We are a great group of humans!!

Wow I just had a moment didn’t I?

Love to all.. back to work.

Wendy

 Hi all,

I just had my weigh in,down 3 pounds!And I have to admit,I had a few off moments.

How do you get your stats at the bottom everytime you post?

Any way,I'm from Alabama, 38,married,2 boys,5'7" &  at 192 now,hopefully going down,love crafts & cats.

I really like it here,everyone seems so nice.

CAN SOMEONE HELP ME, SINCE I STARTED TAKING ALLI, I'VE BEEN TAKING THE PILL 2 OR 3 MINUTES AFTER I EAT. IS THIS OK? ANYONE?.............AND OH YEAH, PLEASE CAN SOMEONE ANSWER MY 2 PREVIOUS QUESTIONS I POSTED I THINK A DAY OR 2 AGO, JUST LOOK FOR THE PICTURE OF THE DUMBELLS AS MY ICON PHOTO....THANKS