I just started two weeks ago and was afraid of the "effects" too!! I went through the books to see what foods were OK and what to stay away from. It was my husband's birthday last weekend and his daughter brought a cake. My instinct was not to eat it, but the peer pressure was there and I had a piece. It was good, but I had effects that night. It was not uncontrollable, but there was oil (it looked like popcorn oil) in the toilet. I knew then that I have to refuse to eat things that are prepared by others, as I have no idea how much fat is in it.
I have been OK since, and last night went to a barbeque that involed awesome food..... I chose not to take a pill and splurge a little...... things turned out fine... I just really watched portions.
Everything will be fine...take a chance, but don't give into peer pressure!!
Lori
sw 170, gw 155, cw 166