Three lbs. is great! For myself, I'm trying to remember that it took me 7 years to gain 70 lbs, so I can't really expect to lose it at record speed either (although I'm definitely hoping to lose it in much less than 7 years!) Maybe that philosphy will work for you, too?
Due to work schedules, my husband does all of the grocery shopping and all of the cooking and his 3 food groups are fat, fatter, and fattest. If it's fried or floating in butter, he loves it. We work opposite schedules half the time, so I'm going to use those times to their fullest to "stick to it" and sometimes I'm just going to have to refuse to eat what he cooks. He'll be mad, but that's just tough. A little over a week ago I went grocery shopping (I'd forgotten what the inside of a grocery store even looked like!) and bought loads of fruit, 15 grain bread, light mayo, skim milk, and Cheerios. He got mad because "there's no room in the refrigerator for all this crap." See what I'm up against? He's no help and gives me no support whatsoever, so if I'm going to do this, I'm going to have to do it on my own - and with the support of you great people on these boards. My cholesterol and blood pressure are both high, so I've got to do something now or I might as well just go crawl into my pine box. And, just for spite, I've decided I won't give my husband the satisfaction of collecting on my life insurance policy (ha, ha, ha), so I'm going to stay the course!!! Lets help eachother! I've found the encouragement on the website to be the #1 most valuable ingredient in the alli plan!