Hello. To answer your main question - you know alli is working because you are losing weight. In order to lose weight, you have to follow a reduced calorie diet. To lose weight, you do the work, alli helps!
Whether you actually see the oil in the toilet depends on many factors like how much fat you are eating, how much fiber and other material is in your stool, and even what kinds of fat you are eating.
Hope this helps!
Maria Marzella Sulli, Pharm.D.