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  • 10-01-2008 1:13 PM
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    • OregonA
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    This Lady!

    I don't know how this is going to function with people like this. I thought this was supposed to be a support group. Is it? Or does everyone reply like this when one person makes a mistake? 




    Forum: want to lose 100+ pounds
    Posted: Sep 30, 4:47 PM [GMT -5]
    Post Subject: Re: I'm back...again! See what happens when you leave for a while?
    Post author: smilegardenia

     then i guess you need to keep buying the pills instead of just quiting all the time, and stop eating bad crap that wasnt in the book in the first place

    your gonna gain the weight back if you do that

  • 10-02-2008 8:31 AM In reply to
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    • NHSkiGirl
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    Re: This Lady!

     Unfortunately sometimes things get lost in e-mail translation land - maybe it wasn't intended as being jagged - who knows, jsut keep plugging on and know that most of us tend to be supportive because that's what we need too and you get what you give...

  • 10-03-2008 6:33 AM In reply to
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    • dolphin9600
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    Re: This Lady!

    Hi, saw this post and just wanted to comment.  Not sure who this post was intended or why it was posted, but sometimes you have to take the bad with the good.  Just continue doing what you know is working for you.  Stay focused on your weight loss and you will eventually reach your weight loss goal.  You CAN do this, push forward, be stronger than you thought you ever could be and keep going!  You need to dig deep into your motivation, determination and will power to get over any obstacles that get into your way-includind any rude posters!

    Good luck!

    Katie 

    sw: 180  (8/16/08)

    cw: 173  (8/29/08)

    1st mgw: 170-reached 9/19/08!

    2nd mgw: 165-reached 10/17/08!

    3rd mgw: 160-reached 12/5/08!

    4th mgw: 155

    5th mgw: 150

    6th mgw: 145

    final goal weight: 140

  • 10-03-2008 9:03 AM In reply to
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    • excellentjeni
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    Re: This Lady!

    Ugh! I say just ignore it. Personally, I don't bother with any posts that contain bad grammar or spelling mistakes as well as lack uppercase letters!

    E

    (Yes, I'm joking... to a point!)

    • Starting weight on 8/16/08: 170
    • Current weight as of 1/6/09: 161
    • 1st Goal met 9/16/08: 162
    • 2nd Goal met xx/xx/xx:154
    • 3rd Goal met xx/xx/xx: 147
    • 4th Goal met xx/xx/xx: 140
  • 10-06-2008 11:20 AM In reply to
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    • BettyKovacs
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    Re: This Lady!

    Hi OregonA,

    I can understand how it could be discouraging to see a post that comes across as judgmental when someone is reaching out for support. There are definitely times when someone is not clear about what they are trying to say and it comes across wrong. When a post is this upsetting to people I recommend that you respond and let the person know how it's coming across and give them the chance to explain.  I am here to take care of the times when someone is inappropriate so I'll address anything that I feel is insensitive or judgmental.

    Thanks for sharing,

    Betty Kovacs, MS, RD

  • 10-06-2008 2:48 PM In reply to
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    Re: This Lady!

    Also, I just noticed that the person who responded curtly to you is only 19 years old and has lost zero pounds so far. So, take it with a grain, or two, or salt!

    E

    • Starting weight on 8/16/08: 170
    • Current weight as of 1/6/09: 161
    • 1st Goal met 9/16/08: 162
    • 2nd Goal met xx/xx/xx:154
    • 3rd Goal met xx/xx/xx: 147
    • 4th Goal met xx/xx/xx: 140
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