What has been really important to me is to:
1. Write down everything I eat and calories and fat grams.
2. Calculate my weekly averages for calories and fat grams (my daily totals always fluctuated, so the weekly averages help keep them from drifting upwards too much). I wasn’t really that successful with alli until I started doing this.
3. Exercise. Everyday. No excuses. Mostly I have walked.
4. Keep coming back here, even if you are not making progress. That's really why you need friends, to pull you through the tough times. Commit to doing this for the long haul.
5. Set a goal and post it here. Also set ridiculously easy mini-goals and focus on achieving them.
6. Be patient. There were lots of weeks I did everything right and still didn’t lose. Lots of those weeks happened in succession. It’s normal and it happens to everyone. It’s when I really feel like quitting. So just be aware that it will happen to you and you have to persevere. Also be aware that during those times when you aren’t losing weight, you still may be losing inches, so measure or try on clothes to see your progress.
Caroline

SW=197/sz 20 (8/22/08)
CW=157/sz 10
GW=150/sz 10=7 more pounds!!!
50 y/o, 5'9"