I'm right there with you. It is so hard for me to say that I am obese, but the numbers don't lie. I have been having declining health as my weight goes up. Each pound I add, the less motivated I am to exercise. I now have difficulty carrying groceries to my car. Not only has this affected my health, but it has lowered my self-esteem and self-worth. I really need support. I am a 45 year old mother of 2, 5 foot 6 inches tall and I weigh 215lbs. I have high blood pressure and asthma - probably due to my weight!