Thanks, that's all great advice. My issue with restaurants is that we're talking super fancy schmancy, non-chain type restaurants with celebrity chefs who tend to go nuts with the ingredients. So you're never entirely sure what you're eating. I'm vegetarian so often that means pasta at these restaurants. I had a business dinner and a lunch in the past 6 days and managed with a salad and veggie appetizer. One of my main concerns in this regard is treatment effects. You can order what you think is "okay" and watch how much you eat, but if you don't know exactly what's involved with the preparation you could be getting more fat grams than you realize and that could trigger treatment effects. But, I've yet to have anything resembling a treatment effect so I think I've managed to keep the fat grams low even when dining out.
As for associates, well, the last thing I want to do is make a client feel ashamed or guilty about what they're eating. I'm their hostess, I'm treating them to a meal, they should enjoy whatever they want without being made to feel like they're eating too much or the wrong thing. Which is why the topic of fancy dining out for business is an issue for those of us who have to do it regularly. Keeping the balance between healthy dining and gracious hosting can be a little tricky when there are only a few of you at the table at a top-notch restaurant. I just kept the conversation on business and on the clients (which I do anyway) but the inevitible "is that all you're having" questions arose. Avoiding desserts is one thing, eating a tomato and a piece of spinach while everyone else is eating a full meal is another entirely.