I've been extremely lucky and have had only one 'oops' - at home, before my morning shower, LOL, and not enough to discourage me. I also knew *exactly* what caused it and will avoid that in the future!
Dawn dishsoap took out the stain, but I washed it immediately.
I had heard the horror stories and have been doing a pretty good job of keeping those stories in mind whenever a piece of cheesecake calls my name. If nothing else, the threat of TEs has kept me aware of what I am eating!