Indeed this is a stressful process, particularly when people gather to express their personal experiences with a new product and are met with insults and condemnation for being human and honest. It seems what we have in this community are the "good" fat people and the "bad" fat people. The "good" ones apparently only have a few pounds to lose, and those were certainly not gained by eating too much/not moving enough-- no, they were most likely deposited by the fat fairy who waved her wand made of sausage and cheese over the little darlings while they slept their skinny sleep. The rest of us are just "bad" poor fat slobs. When we have TE's and actually dare to talk about them, it simply shows how horrible and undeserving of skinniness and health we are. The "good" ones don't have those-- to be sure, they don't even fart at all, which is part of their problem (if they'd release their pent-up air once in a while, they'd be a lot less high-strung and critical of others). I'm all for being supportive of the weight-loss efforts of others, but when some of you start chiming in with your condescending attitudes as if your own TE's don't stink and stain, well then I have to set you straight. Peace out.