Hi 4W Lady,
It doesn't cost anything to use this website and you'll find these support boards wonderful. Look in the posting categories below this one. Find your age group and/or the amount of weight you want to lose, and poke around a bit. We're all in the same boat and everyone is so helpful.
Good luck to you!
Mary
Mary SW: 169.0 (6/18/08) CW: 151.0 # lost: 18.0 Goal: Size Perfect or 135 whichever comes first!