a lot of the reason's soul food tastes so good is the butter and bacon grease. Try cooking your veggies in chicken, turkey or veggie broth (fat free). Fresh cabbage or collards cooked in chicken broth and m mcbutter is great. You can also use Molly McButter. We now have to resort to different spices and things to make food better. I now use more onions, garlic, and marinates, and different spices. Also try if you can find it smoked turkey wings to use as you seasoning meat. I just get rid of the skin and can still eat the turkey. I gave up pork a long time ago and don't miss it.
There is also beef breakfast sausage (sometimes hard to find) but find it more at Walmart.(frozen breakfast food). Sometimes do salmon and onions in skillet with little olive oil, for breakfast too along with scramble eggs, toast.
Hope this helps