Hi Donna,
Most people do not have treatment effects (TE's) as long as they stay within their allowed fat grams per meal. So, if you are allowed 17 grams of fat per meal, do NOT go over 17 grams-you could even stay a gram or two below just to be safe. Another suggestion (and I hope this isn't offending to you or anyone else) is to wear a pad "just in case". This will help if any accident occurs and you can't get to the bathroom in time. Also wearing black pants is an option.
Good luck. Don't be afraid to start Alli, we've all been there! Try to start Alli when you are on your days off from work to see how it works for you in the beginning. But I'm sure you'll be fine as long as you stay within your fat grams.
Can't wait to hear of your success!
Katie
sw: 180 (8/16/08)
cw: 173 (8/29/08)
1st mgw: 170-reached 9/19/08!
2nd mgw: 165-reached 10/17/08!
3rd mgw: 160-reached 12/5/08!
4th mgw: 155
5th mgw: 150
6th mgw: 145
final goal weight: 140